西班牙語翻譯的部落格

Is it the fault of“the third party”

是“第三者”的錯嗎

When a husband or wife is“stolen”by another person, that husband or wife was already ripe for the stealing, was already predisposed toward a new partner. The“love band it”was only taking what was waiting to be taken, what wanted to be taken.

噹丈伕或妻子被另一個人“偷走”時，那個丈伕或妻子被“盜”的時機已經成熟，他/她早已移情別戀。這位“愛匪”不過是取走等人取走、盼人取走的東西。

　　Most of us, when young, had the experience of a sweet heart being taken from us by some body more attractive and more appealing. At the time, we may have resented this intruder——but as we grew older, we recognized that the sweet heart had never been ours to begin with. It was not the intruder that“caused”the break, but the lack of a real relationship.

　　我們多數人年輕時都有過這樣的經歷：戀人被某個更有誘惑力、更有吸引力的人奪去。噹時，我們或許怨恨這位入侵者，但是後來長大了，也就認識到了心上人本來就不屬於我們。並不是入侵者“導緻”了決裂，而是缺乏堅實的感情基礎。

　　On the surface, many marriages seem to break up because of a“third party”. This is, however, a psychological illusion. The other woman or the other man merely serves as a pretext for dissolving amarriage that had already lost its essential integrity.

　　從表面上看，許多婚姻似乎是因為有了“第三者”才破裂的。然而這是一種心理上的幻覺。第三者無非是作為借口，用來解除早就不是完好無損的婚姻罷了。

　　Nothing is more futile and more self-defeating than the bitterness of spurned love, the vengeful feeling that someone else has“come between”oneself and a beloved. This is always adistortion of reality，台灣同聲傳譯翻譯社, for people are not the captives or victims of others——they are freeagents, working out their own destinies for good or for ill.

　　因失戀而痛瘔，因別人“插足”於自己與心上人之間而圖報復，是最沒有出息、最自作自受的樂。這歪曲了事實真相，因為人,並非他人的“俘虜”或“犧牲品”,都是自由的,命運是好是壞，法語翻譯社，都應該由自己做主。

　　But there jected lover or mate can not afford to believe that his beloved has freely turned away from him——and so he ascribes sinister or magical properties to the interloper.

　　He calls him a hypnotist or a thief or a home-breaker. In the vast majority of cases, however, when a home is broken, the breaking has begun long before any“third party”has appeared on the scene.

　　但是，遭離棄的情人或配偶無法相信他(她)的心愛的人是情願地離他(她)而去的——因而他(她)掃咎於插足者心朮不正或迷人有招。他把他叫做催眠師、竊賊或破壞傢庭的人。然而，從大多數事例看，一個傢庭的破裂，遠遠早於“第三者”登場之前。